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    Temple Grandin’s insights into Autism, Animals and Affection

    Tuesday, June 5th, 2012

    Like many people, I was intrigued by autistic professor Temple Grandin after reading the essay Oliver Sacks wrote about her in his collection, An Anthropologist on Mars. Grandin studies animal science at Colorado State University and is theauthor of several books about herself, about autism, and about the minds of animals. Among her many achievements has been the design of a more humane system for slaughtering cattle.

    Shes giving a talk Tuesday at the Academy of Natural Sciences. Sorry to say its sold out, but we can watch it through streaming here, starting at 6:30 pm. Heres what the Academy says:

    A professor of animal sciences at Colorado State University, Grandin was diagnosed with autism as a child. Using her unusual ability to think in pictures, she has led groundbreaking research on how animals process their experiences and surroundings and is an outspoken animal welfare advocate. In her talk entitled, All Kinds of Minds, Grandin will discuss how people process information differently and why the world needs all kinds of minds. Shell also talk about the differences in the way animals think. Visual thinkers, mathematical thinkers, and word thinkers abound in the human population, while animals, lacking verbal language, think in sensory ways.

    Grandin has written that she has recently developed the ability to enjoy being hugged by other people. In his essay, Oliver Sacks describes how she constructed a squeeze machine to hug her, but apparently now shes given it up.

    Id love to know whether she enjoys affection with a companion animal. Thinking about her, I realized that many of us probably give and receive most of our physical affection from non-human animals. When I see my neighbors, I say hi to them and I pet their dogs. If I petted the neighbors and said hi to the dogs, people would think I had lost my mind.

    Most of us go through a lot of ritual hugging and kissing as a form of greeting, but genuine affection can be fraught with sexual innuendo, especially in America. That all changes if the touching involves a cat or a dog. Why is this? Is it an artifact of our culture, or is it related to the way these animals need to communicate with us?

    My formerly feral cat Higgs would appreciate Temple Grandins struggle to learn to be hugged by people. For the first several months living with me, Higgs spent most of his time hiding in a walk-in closet. Id read enough about feral cats to accept that this situation might never change. But slowly, in baby steps, he went from antisocial to accepting of affection to demanding of it. Now he craves being touched more urgently than he craves food, and hes very fond of food.

    Higgs changed me too, since Id never had a cat, never really understood their appeal, and took him in mostly out of guilt. But its hard to avoid becoming a cat lover when one greets you at the door and follows you around the house saying mraa mwraaw murble moo? which seems to mean Would you mind petting me?

    Summer Survival Tips for Parents

    Tuesday, June 5th, 2012

     

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    Im going to be honest. As a stay at home mom, the thought of having both of my children at home with me all day this summer actually sounds terrifying.

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    Dont get me wrong, I love my kids. But just thinking about all the hours that Ill have to fill with activities makes me want to crawl into bed and suck my thumb.

    So, I decided to compile a list of activities and daily routines that will ensure my sanity in the heat of summer. My goal is to not once hear a child say Mom, Im bored! Plus, a little structure never hurt anybody.

    Get outside-The first order of the day will be to head outside while the temperature is cool. Let the kids hunt for lizards, play in the dirt, run around to let off steam, and just enjoy the fresh air. The earlier in the morning the better. Its amazing just how entertaining your own back yard can be.

    Do family chores-Everyone will make his own bed, put dirty clothes in the washer, and help put away clean folded clothes. Discipline works wonders for a bored child.

    Play with our senses-There are few things in life as satisfying as running your fingers through all kinds of textures. Fill a plastic box with dry rice and let the kids drive Hot Wheels through it. Stick them in swimsuits and spray shaving cream on the table and let them draw shapes in it. The messier the activity, the more fun it will be.

    Water Fun-Why not let them clean up from sensory hour by running through the sprinkler? A water gun fight is always awesome but giving the kids a hose a to wash the car is even better. Lets not forget how much a slip-and-slide can be.

    Play in the kitchen-Grab all the ingredients and bake some cupcakes together. After theyre all done and youve sampled a few, wrap up the rest and take them to the fire department. The fire men will love it and might even let you poke around the fire station. Bake another batch and take a basket to the childrens floor of the hospital. It feels great to give to others.

    Learn our city-Take a trip to the airport and let the kids watch the planes take off and land. Ride the city bus so that the children can experience public transportation if they havent already. Watching the world around you is almost like seeing a free movie.

    Take in culture-Visit the Georgia Museum of Art or a Natural History Museum. Let the children ask a million questions and then search the museum for answers. They will think that you are super smart.

    Visit the library-What could be better than a huge air conditioned building filled with books? We plan to go once a week to a scheduled activity like story time or puppet shows. Let the kids check out a few books and keep a basket by the front door as a designated spot for them. Have reading time once a day so that they can soak in the story and be ready for a new book the next week.

    Quiet time-Have a set period of time during the day when the children must play in their own rooms. At that point, mommy will need a break. It doesnt matter what they do while theyre in there as long as its a quiet activity.

    Make time for yourself-I learned this the hard way. Make a point to nurture yourself at least once throughout the day. Whether its meditating, showering, reading, napping, or just staring at the wall, be sure to take a moment just for you.

    Im actually looking froward to falling into the rhythm of the summer and have high hopes my survival list will keep my home fun.

    Do you ever find yourself in a rut when your children are home full time? Do you have any fun ideas of activities to do with kids in the summer? Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.